My boyfriend popped the question that we should live together. Right afterward, I fell and broke my wrist. His come-on line was. "You like my house and my dog, right?" We have only been dating four months and I only see him once or twice a month. By the looks of things I probably won't see him until mid-October. I never answered him when he asked me to move in. I just got really scared, and then I had the accident. I shattered two bones.

He wanted me to have surgery in New York so he could take care of me. I wanted it at home where I could take care of myself. I felt like a prisoner in his home until he heard surgery was gonna cost me $2,500 US, and then he couldn't get me home fast enough. He hasn't returned to see me since. He was supposed to come this weekend, but he had a prior engagement that was rescheduled for the same time, so now I probably won't be seeing him until mid-October.

He calls nightly. When I was recuperating, I didn't always take the call if I was resting. Honestly. The pain meds knocked me out. I was looking for a sign when we walked in the woods prior to my fall. Was my fall a sign? If so, what did it mean? I don't know if your accident was a sign from the universe, but clearly you have serious reservations about this individual. Listen to your intuition. Why would you leave the country to move in with some guy you've met only a handful of times?

He hasn't returned to see me since. He calls nightly, but when you were recuperating, you didn't always take the call if you were resting. That is understandable. The pain meds knocked you out. Still, if he is serious, his actions should make you feel supported, not pressured or trapped. Pay attention to what he actually does. The comment itself says a lot. If that was his big sell, then maybe you already know the answer. A relationship should feel like a partnership, not a sales pitch.